I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be either to be honest. I just think it is worse when you are spoilered when you don't want to be than it is to not have any spoilers when you want them. They're called spoilers for a reason and it's because they CAN and DO.
I was one of the very few people I knew at the time that didn't know about the fake regeneration even though I was amidst the spoiler community/'in crowd'. I experienced that episode as it was intended and it taught me a lot about what I needed/didn't need to know.
I.... where possible avoid them...simples
